dusron ke sath sanchar Mein sidha, imandar aur vinamra hona mukharata ki paribhasha hai, ismein dhakka mukki ya takraav ki avashyakta nahin hai. Rishto mein, mukhar hona rachnatmak samvad ko badhava de sakta hai. Mukhar hona ek mahatvpurn gun hai jo rishte aur jivan ki safalta donon ke liye avashyak hai.
Saubhagya se, aap kisi bhi umra mein rishto mein aakramak hona Sikh sakte hain. Yah ek Pratibha hai jise sikhaya ja sakta hai. Apne Sathi ko Khush dekhne ki Chahat ek Samanya baat hai. Lekin kisi rishte Mein dradhta main yah sunishchit karna bhi Shamil hai ki aapko vah mile jo aapko chahie. Jitna ham Apne partner ko Khush dekhna chahte Hain utna hi hamen apna khyal rakhne ki bhi jarurat hai.
1. Apni najar puraskar per rakhen
aap UN charchaon ko jante Hain Jahan aap Bina kisi Yojana ke bad karna shuru kar dete Hain, ya isase bhi badtar, aap use mudde ko ujagar karte Hain jis per aap baithe Hain Keval tabhi jab aapka Sathi ek alag Mudda uthata hai. Jab aap “apni najar puraskar per rakhenge” to parinaam donon pakshon ke liye lagbhag hamesha behtar hoga. Aap jo vyasak karna chahte hain ya Janna chahte Hain, use najar andaaz na Karen. Shuru karne se pahle Apne irade per vichar Karen aur use per kayam rahe, khaskar jab halat kathin Ho. Aur yadi aapka irada Apne bare Mein kuchh vyakt karne ka hai, tu acche parinaam ki aapki sambhavnayen kafi adhik hai.
2. Yuddh jitne ke liye ladai Karen
yah mujhe meri pasandida kahavat ki yad dilata hai ‘aap sahi ho sakte hain, ya aap kisi rishte mein ho sakte hain.’ sahi ho na chahana Manav swabhav hai. Hamen dharmik Anand ki Anubhuti hoti hai ya ham dusron se shreshth aur behtar mahsus karte Hain. Lekin jab rishto aur sanchar ki baat aati hai, yadi aap Sahi hone per dridh Hain, to aapko parinaam Mein haar Jeet ki guarantee hai. Yuddh jitne ke liye ladai harne ka Arth hai apni badi tasvir ke paksh Mein apni avashyakta ko tyagne per vichar karna.
3. Apne sanchar ko sahanubhuti, Karuna aur Prem per aadharit Karen
mukharta ek tarah se sanchar Karna hai Jahan aap dusre ke sath Apne barabar, na ki khud se Kam ya behtar ke roop Mein vyavhar karte Hain. Jab aap apne sanchar ki prusthbhoomi mein ine iradon ko rakhte Hain to sahanubhuti, Karuna aur Prem aapke rishto Mein ek Naya aayam late Hain. Ve aapko dusron ke sath daal ve aapko dusron ke sath ve aapko dusron ke sath daal ve aapko dusron ke sath daal ve aapko dusron ke sath daal mail ve aapko dusron ke sath taal mel bithane, aankhon ke piche ke vyakti ko mahsus karne aur khule ban se judne mein madad karte Hain Jo dusron ke liye pyar Mehsus karne ka parinaam hai.
4. Ektarfa sadachar ka abhyas Karen
sadachar ke sath jeene ka Arth hai apne swayam ke Naitik sanhita ke anurup hona aur apne din pratidin ki batchit mein apna code ko jina. Jab rishto ki baat aati hai, to unko ya mulyon per vichar Karen Jin per AAP Vishwas karte hain ya jinke bare mein aap dridhda se mahsus karte Hain. Ek tarfa sadachar ka abhyas use sanhita Ko jeene ki saralta ke bare mein hai, jahan tak ki uksave ki sthiti mein bhi. Yah ek tarfa hai kyunki aap akele UN mulyon ke anusar jeene ki jimmedari lete hain jo aapko Sarthak aur satvik lagte Hain.
5. Apne liye samvad Karen, Apne Sathi ko badalne ke liye nahin
Kai Jode Apne Sathi ko badalne ke Lakshya ke sath samvad karke Apne rishto Mein fans jaate Hain. Sanchar ki is shaili ke sath samasya yah hai ki isase pahle ki aap kisi mudde per charcha shuru Karen, aap ek Aisa pattern sthapit kar rahe hain Jahan shrota ko apna bachav karna hoga. Isase Aksar badhate aur pratispardhatmak sandesh aate Hain Jahan kisi ki baat nahin suni jaati aur har koi haar jata hai. Apne bare Mein kuchh naya khojne aur khud Ko janne ka mauka dene ke Lakshya ke bad batchit Mein Shamil hone ke liye apni mansikta badlen.
6. Garima Aur gambhirta ke sath batchit Karen
is kadam ka sath vastav Mein apne liye hona hai. Iska matlab yah hai ki aap swayam ka samarthan, mahatva aur protsahan karte Hain, tab bhi jab koi Anya vyakti aapko gehrai se prerit kar raha hun. Jab aap apne ichchaon, avashyaktaon, vicharon, bhavnaon, Aur ichchaon ke samarthak hote hue sanchar Mein Pravesh karte Hain, to Sone jaane ki sambhavna bahut adhik hoti hai. Iske alava, aapko sandesh ko vah mulya aur Samman Diya jata hai jiska vah hakdar hai.
7. Yadi uchit Ho, to Samadhan per batchit Karen
har mukhar batchit ke liye Samadhan ki avashyakta nahin Hoti ya honi bhi nahin chahie. Yadi aapke sanchar se Samadhan ki sambhavna khulati hai to sunishchit Karen ki use per charcha karne ke liye jagah Ho. Halanki, Kai jode bahut jaldi Samadhan ki aur badhane ke Jaal Mein fans jaate Hain aur sunane, samajhne ki pushti karne Jaise mahatvpurn kadmon ko nakaar dete Hain. Sunishchit Karen ki aap samasya ke Samadhan ko suvidhajanak banane ke liye sambhavit samadhanon per batchit karne se pahle ine prathaon Mein Shamil Ho.
